Life never stops

Life,a road full of twists and turns. 

Sometimes foggy.....

Sometimes bright......

Life is a road full of twists and turns....

Sometimes foggy.......

Sometimes bright.......

Life changes but never stops.....which means you can never stop living....

Sometimes,for some,the phase changes every decade.

When we are in the phase of growing up,in our early years of life,the transition is easy and exciting.....from our birth to all through our schooling,most of us have it easy.Its a phase of enquiry,learning and experimenting.

Then begins our phase of independence during our university years.The next decade of growing up,our first step towards adulthood,in which we experience many more things by which our true character is formed.

Then comes our phase where we have to choose our  career ,choose our life partner etc.This is a challenging phase,a phase of uncertainty,but exciting as well.

Now you enter a phase where you get the real feel of life with all the adjustments,compromises,highs and lows,joys and sorrows,responsibilities etc etc., which makes you a stronger and a wiser person.

When you are done with your responsibilities and have actually begun to live your life your way,you understand that its difficult to fill the void created by less activities and less people in your life.Then starts the real trudge.

My take on trudge is different.

This is the time to summarize your life,know and face the realities of life....

Now relationships are different. People who used to flock to your house,enjoy the hospitality,enjoy your company slowly start vading.Now is the time for introspection. A time to pick up threads and start your final decade with renewed enthusiasm. You are still in your phase of enquiry and learning and more so, understanding the changing scenario and adapting to it gleefully.Why not?You are your own best friend,you are your own cheerleader.You are your own inspiration,you are the follower of your untouched dreams,you are the creator of your own creations,you are a keen observer,you are a forgiver,you are a friend to all who befriend you.

All of us who are in the final decade of our lives should be full of gratitude for all that you have now,proud of your achievements.Its a phase to take care of your health,to spend the twilight years happily,usefully and positively.You have all the time in the world to dream.Stay young at heart,laugh a lot,pray a lot.

This picture is a hazy,dreamy picture,with which I have fallen in love.Imagine yourself enjoying a long dreamy drive.....hahaha.This is the way to stay young at heart.Dream without interruptions,enjoy your favourite music....seconds will pass into minutes,minutes into hours,hours into days,days into years.You will never ever feel the trudge.